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  1. Avatar photo Joseph Mamah
    December 6, 2011 @ 7:57 am

    (Accra, Ghana)

    Would God forgive my sins even if I keep going back to do the same things I pray for forgiveness for? How do I stay away from sexual immorality?

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    • Avatar photo Ray Foucher
      December 7, 2012 @ 8:10 am

      Answer: As is described in the forgiveness study on this site, God does forgive every sin. However, that is a different act or event or decision or whatever you want to call it than you accepting that forgiveness. So for you to realize that you have been forgiven and accept it, you need to understand that God does forgive (and paid the price – the life of his only begotten son – so that you could be forgiven). Read the whole study if you can.

      It also helps in dealing with any specific sin, to have an appreciation for God’s Character and to know how good he is. When we understand His love and forgiveness we can come to the point where

      “We love Him, because He first loved us.” (1 John 4:19)

      And that realization and motivation can help keep us from any sin. Of course, there may be specific steps you should be taking to avoid exposing yourself to temptation.

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  2. Avatar photo Calvince
    January 9, 2012 @ 8:16 pm

    Feeling that God May have Rejected Me

    I am a young fellow in Kenya, East Africa. I am so much inspired with your work. Please, I am going through lots of pain in life and I am feeling that God may have rejected me. Please can you help me?

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    • Avatar photo Ray Foucher
      January 9, 2012 @ 8:16 pm

      Thank you for your note. Since you have expressed concern that God may have rejected you I understand that your pain is not physical but spiritual. Perhaps this is because of feelings such as guilt over things you have done that you feel God does not approve of.

      While God does not approve of sin, He still loves the sinner – that’s you and me and everyone else. We are all in the same category since all have sinned.

      “For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God;” (Rom 3:23)

      So don’t feel that God loves you any less or rejects you because of anything you may have done. God is relentless in His attempts to connect with and form a relationship with us.

      “… he hath said, I will never leave thee, nor forsake thee.” (Heb 13:5)

      If you are feeling concerned at about your relationship to God, then you have not even rejected Him and there is a basis for forming a relationship. Begin to read study your Bible and look especially for the goodness of God. As you come to see His goodness more you will receive the gift of repentance (or receive it more fully).

      “Or despisest thou the riches of his goodness and forbearance and longsuffering; not knowing that the goodness of God leadeth thee to repentance?” (Rom 2:4)

      Compare your actions with God’s standard and you may find that you need to make some changes in your life. While you are not saved by good deeds – it is a free gift – God’s law is there for your protection. The more you stay within His will the better your life will be – certainly you will have less reason to have feelings of guilt.

      If you haven’t already, please read the pages on my website dealing with forgiveness. You will see there that God, from His heart, forgives everyone, He is not having bad feelings towards you for what you have done – He loves you. That is the feelings part of it. Of course, there is still the legal aspect of forgiveness and that is taken care of through the blood of God’s dear Son that was shed to pay the penalty of death. If you claim that, then your sins are covered.

      From that point, go forward learning of Him and relying on His strength to grow in obedience and knowledge of Him. Look for Christian fellowship and a group that teaches the Bible and keeps God’s Sabbath (Friday sunset to Saturday sunset) holy.

      Take care and thank you for your comments. You have blessed me by letting me know that my efforts have been a help to you.

      Ray

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  3. Avatar photo Tonia Lane
    March 31, 2012 @ 3:02 pm

    Does God hear? Can God really hear our prayers for Forgiveness?
    (Mayfield Hts, Ohio, USA)

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    • Avatar photo Ray Foucher
      March 31, 2012 @ 7:02 pm

      Answer: Yes, God can hear all our prayers. He can even “hear” our unspoken prayers. The good news is that He already forgives us even before we pray for it. God’s forgiveness towards us, His attitude toward us is not conditional on our praying for forgiveness or even feeling sorry for our sins. The verse:

      “If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.” (1 John 1:9)
      while it contains a condition, is not talking about forgiveness as granted by God but of forgiveness as accepted and experienced by us. It is a two party-transaction; forgiveness is both given and received. This is all explained on the page about the definition of guilt and how to deal with it.

      Actually, the more important question is: can we “hear” or, better, understand and accept that God always forgives us? We need to understand that He does not hold our sins against us or love us any less when we sin. He is trying to get us to understand how great His love is so that we will respond and allow Him to help us through life that He might bless us and have a relationship with us.

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  4. Avatar photo Chika Onyenkezor
    March 31, 2012 @ 8:02 pm

    Can God Forgive Anything I Do?
    Does God forgive every sin? Now I need God to forgive my sin of the past.
    (Lagos, Nigeria)

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    • Avatar photo Ray Foucher
      March 31, 2012 @ 8:02 pm

      Yes, Chika God can and will forgive any sin. The really good news is that He already has forgiven your sins of the past. There is a sense in which He has even forgiven your future sins.

      What most people (and even most theologians don’t know) is that forgiveness, in the Bible, is translated from different original words some of which refer to the act on the part of the forgiver (the one doing the forgiving) of giving forgiveness and some of which refer to the reception of that forgiveness by the one being forgiven (the forgivee). God never withholds forgiveness from us.

      He always still loves us (Think of the words of the children’s song: “Jesus loves me when I’m bad even though it makes Him sad.”) and wants us to understand that. The problem we have is that we have been so misinformed about the character of God that we believe He is mad at us when we sin and will not forgive and smile on us again unless we meet certain conditions.

      For more details on forgiveness including what those original Hebrew and Greek words are, see the full study on forgiveness.

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